It’s been a while
since Maureen and I talked. We met in a coffee shop and the weather was super
nice that day. We talked a lot about summer plans and what she normally does
with her family in the summer. Somehow, we also talked about how parents’
careers can shape kids’ growing up experience. She took an example of her
husband and her son. Her husband is a geology professional, and her son grew up
hearing some geological terms that kids normally don’t know. So, one time, he
had a homework assignment and he did it around geode. His teacher was quite
impressed because he was very young, but this is something that he knew
naturally from his parents. This reminds me of my decision to be a business and
economics major. My Dad is a business man who does international trading. When
I was a kid, I really liked going to his office and playing hide and seek
because there always were several huge piles of clothes or boxes on the floor.
Then, when I grew up a little bit, I thought it’s pretty cool that my Dad was
on the phone all the time or dressed formally to attend meetings. Thus, in high
school, I took a business class and found out that I actually really like it.
Although it’s very different from what I though it is when I was a kid, my Dad
definitely plays an important role in my decision to become a business major.
Then, we talked
about my post-graduate plan. I recently just signed up for CFA level I exam. CFA
stands for Chartered Financial Analysts and it’s a certificate that proves
one’s ability in the investment industry. This certificate is quite hard to get
and require a lot of efforts. I told Maureen about my study plan and my
struggles due to heavy workload from both school and the study for this exam.
She gave me some good advices such as prioritize schoolwork during the semester
and do more study for the CFA exam during the summer. I also told her about my
lack of motivation to get school work done recently. There is always a period
of time per semester when I just don’t want to do anything, especially study.
She said maybe a change of environment might help, such as study in a different
coffee shop or a different place.
I really like this
mentor relationship with Maureen. We’re really good friends and our
conversation is always very interesting and all over the place. I think ever
after this management class is done, I’ll still keep in touch with Maureen and
hang out with her regularly.
Thanks for sharing! Sometimes we forget that a lot of our interests have been molded in our upbringing and claim that our interests our purely our own. While part of this is true, its important to remember that some of our interests, in your case business and in the kid's geology, are a result of a mending by others. Good luck on the exam!
ReplyDeleteI find it fascinating to think about how many ways our parents influence us in ways that we don't even know. Through their passions and ideas we learn why they love what they do and we catch on to little bits of information like this geology prof and his son. It is through living and growing together that they are actually brought closer together. Sounds Maureen knows how to spark conversation with you that leads to more ideas for you and an encouragement to your career path.
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